Pick Who Picked You You ever notice how a lot of us got our relationship education from 90s sitcoms and somehow ended up confused as hell in real life? Nah, for real. Those shows had us thinking the greatest love story was chasing somebody who ain't want you for 8 seasons straight. We watched dudes get rejected every week and somehow the lesson was "keep trying." Then we grew up wondering why we're exhausted, heartbroken, or stuck in relationships where we always gotta prove our value. Let's talk about it. Too many people ignore the person that actually chose them and spend all their energy chasing the person everybody else wants. It's like walking into the barbershop, seeing an empty chair with the best barber ready for you, but you wanna wait three hours for the celebrity barber because everybody else in line wants him too. Make it make sense. A lot of men do this. They overlook the woman that's showing genuine interest, supporting them, checking on them...