Joyner Lucas, MYA & That “Nevermind” Love That’ll Mess With Your Head Fight or Flight #TalkinOuttaTurn

 

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🗣️ Talkin’ Outta Turn: Joyner Lucas, MYA & That “Nevermind” Love That’ll Mess With Your Head Fight or Flight By 

TalkinOutta Contributor Who’s Officially Retired From Love 😆 

So boom—I peeped that new Joyner Lucas joint with MYA, and man… that video had me twisted in all types of moods. Like, not just “this is deep” vibes, but “yo, this hit way too close to home” type of energy.

I ain’t gon’ lie, I been through somethin’ eerily similar not too long ago. So when I saw Joyner and MYA goin’ back and forth with that thing love lol, that “I love you but I hate you” tension, I was like:

“Damn… this ain’t a music video. This a mirror.”

💔 Is Social Engineering That Real?

Now here’s the wild part—has social engineering got so deep that we out here feelin’ each other’s pain through pixels? Or maybe we just numb and use acronyms like “IDGAF” to mask the fact that we actually don't care too much about how each other feel.

We so reliant on therapy, life coaches, and TikTok gurus that got their own mess goin’ on, they end up playin’ in our minds like it’s a sandbox. Tryna diagnose us when we ain’t even finished figurin’ out our own symptoms.

Or maybe… just maybe… we don’t talk enough. We don’t compare notes. We don’t say,

“Yo, you ever feel like you gave your all and still got ghosted?” We just suffer in silence and let the algorithms tell us how to heal.

🚩 Red Flags & American Love Games

Watching that video, I was like:

“Yeah, f her friends and family.” But why they don't have to care for you.

But also… why they stop messin’ with you in the first place? You saw the red flags. You knew what it was. But you dragged it out ‘cause you believed in unconditional love.

But let’s be real—in America, unconditional love is a myth. It’s all conditions, all contracts, all “what can you do for me lately?”

Joyner gave the woman’s perspective heavy—like full-on cinematic therapy session. But when it came to the man’s side? It felt held back. Like he was tryna protect her image or maybe just didn’t wanna go full savage.

🥀 Nevermind: The Most Dangerous Word in Love

At the end of the video, they hit us with that “Nevermind.” And that word? That word is lethal.

“Nevermind” is what people say when they’ve already made up their mind. It’s the emotional eject button. It’s the “I’m done explaining myself” anthem.

But let’s not ignore the layers. She kicked him while he was down, but it was wrapped in “I want you to get your hunger back.” Did she know where his mind was? Did she know what he was battling?

And her? She wanted to be chased again. Wanted to feel wanted. But how long did he chase when he first got her? How many hoops he jumped through just to earn her love?

It’s a tug-of-war. A slippery slope. A whole emotional rollercoaster with no seatbelt.

But hold up—then came the twist.

They woke up. They kissed. They looked at each other like, “Damn… maybe we ain’t done.”

And that moment? That moment was everything.

It was like all the pain, all the arguments, all the “I’m over it” energy got paused for one second of clarity. One second of,

“I still see you. I still feel you. I still love you.”

It ain’t perfect. It ain’t fixed. But it’s real. And sometimes, real is enough to try again.

💭 Better to Give Than to Try… or Just Give Up?

Here’s the truth: It’s better to give than to try. Tryin’ is half-hearted. Tryin’ is “maybe.” But givin’? Givin’ is full soul. Givin’ is “I’m all in.”

Still… sometimes you gotta ask yourself:

“Is it better to give up on it… or try to work it out?”

That’s the real tug-of-war. Because not every love is worth the fight. But some fights are worth every bruise if the love is real.

So if you’re in it, be in it. And if you’re done, be done. Just don’t stay stuck in the middle, confused and drained.

🛑 Final Word from a Love Retiree

If you got the one you love—don’t let the world trick you outta that bond. Don’t let social media, fake friends, or unhealed trauma convince you to throw away something real.

🧠💔 Relationship Pressure Be Like…

See, the world got us thinkin’ relationships supposed to be all soft lighting and matching pajamas. But in real life? It’s more like:

📀 “Switchin’ up like a DJ scratchin’ vinyl—no build, just bounce.”

We don’t fight for love no more. We ghost, we block, we hit that “Nevermind” like it’s a Spotify skip button. We out here treatin’ love like a limited-time offer on Amazon—if it don’t ship fast, we cancel the order.

But that image? That kiss at the end? That was the pause. The “yo, maybe we still got somethin’ left in the tank.” It’s that moment when you realize:

🗣️ “We might be broken… but we ain’t shattered.”

And that’s the part that hit me hardest. In a world full of swipe culture and “next up” mentalities, they chose to stay. Even if just for a moment. Even if just to mend what’s left.

So yeah, maybe love ain’t always pretty. Maybe it’s cracked, bruised, and held together by late-night texts and half-apologies. But if you still got that spark? That lil’ ember of “I see you”? Then maybe—just maybe—it’s worth the rebuild.

Because real love? Real love don’t fold easy. It bends, it breaks, it bruises… but it don’t vanish.

As for me? I’m retired from the love game. No jersey. No comeback tour. Just convince social media destroyed the world. Heart Broken and Chillen.

🎥 Go watch that Joyner x MYA video. But don’t just watch it—feel it. And if it hits you like it hit me, maybe it’s time to talk, not just scroll.

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