Ayesha Curry & the Validation Olympics: When the Front Seat Ain’t Yours to Claim #TalkinOuttaTurn

Ayesha Curry & the Validation Olympics: When the Front Seat Ain’t Yours to Claim

Clip from Ayesha Interview

I ain’t gon’ front—been holdin’ this one in for a minute. I was in love or somethin’ like that, thought I had the perfect one the lifer you know the best friend, so I kept it G. But life hit me with a reality check real quick nothin last forever. You can wait but you'll never get that same person back pride and ego is the downfall of all. Now I’m free to speak on it, and yeah… Ayesha Curry, you up on the flame list.

Let’s talk about this new-age validation chase. Some women out here ain’t lookin’ for love—they lookin’ for attention. Not from the man that love them, hold them down, raise kids with them. Nah, they want it from random dudes who don’t give two cents about their daily life. Just tryna slide in the DMs, smash, and dip. And they don’t realize the game until the beauty fade, the likes dry up, and they sittin’ solo with kids and regrets. Meanwhile, the good dude who took it on the chin? He somewhere tryna rebuild his peace.

Now Ayesha… she been on this attention tour for a while. Steph Curry out here winnin’ championships, buildin’ legacy, stayin’ lowkey and respectful. And shorty wanna be in the spotlight like she hit the game-winner. First red flag was that interview where she said she feel some type of way 'cause men don’t flirt with her like woman do with Steph. Sis… you married. You got a whole MVP at home. Why you worried about outside validation? He don't pay them no mind.

Then she popped up on Jada’s Red Table Talk—aka the Toxic Queen’s throne—where they spread relationship advice like those social relationship podcast like it’s gospel, but we never see their own partners unless it’s drama if they even have partner. It's like the friends and family that make there relationship look perfect and there really trash. That whole vibe got Derrick Jaxn energy. You know, the dude who was preachin’ loyalty while cheatin’ on his wife the whole time. FOH!!!

Fast forward, Ayesha on another podcast talkin’ ’bout how she didn’t wanna get married or have kids. But you said yes. You walked down that aisle. You built a family. Now you wanna unpack all that on a mic like it’s therapy hour? Your kids old enough to hear that. Your husband gotta sit through that. That’s not healing—that’s public embarrassment. Run for those that use mental health therapy excuses there bat ish crazy all different kind of mood like there bipolar. 

And let’s be real: a lot of women today wanna be married but don’t understand what marriage is. It’s not just the cute pics and matching outfits. It’s the thick and thin. The good and the ugly. The “I got you” when life get messy. But too many ready to run when it ain’t perfect. Then they end up with someone who do ’em dirty, and the lesson finally land.

Ayesha actin’ like she want the front seat in Steph’s story, but she forgot the saying: “Behind every great man is a great woman”—not one tryna outshine him. You supposed to be the backbone, not the billboard.

I wouldn’t be surprised if she already drawin’ up them separation papers. Probably on one of them reality shows that breed more foolishness. Like Lloyd Banks said: "You could be rich, if you could spend babies… I done seen girls turn to double dumb hoes. Then they get pregnant, another one grows."

It’s wild out here. Protect your peace, kings. Watch the signs. ’Cause not every woman that smile in your face is built for the journey.



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